Why should I be a Missionary when I grow up?

A few weeks ago we had Stake Conference and so many topics popped up in discussion with our boys. Our little Engineer came away with many questions among them were WHY would he need to be a Missionary, and what exactly was the gospel, and why didn't people already know it, who had the priesthood authority for our ward, stake, etc. Anyone who has been the parent to a six year old is likely familiar with the unending questions that they can come up with. On the positive side this meant that he WAS actually listening even while drawing pictures of police cars, doing word searches, and writing in his notebook.

My husband and I tried to address his questions at the dinner table that night and soon just realized that somehow our verbal explanations were simply not making sense to him. So we asked him if he would help us figure out some of the answers the next night at Family Home Evening. That was definitely a good suggestion and was met with much cheering and speculation about what the treat would be. Family Home Evening (or perhaps it is the treats that accompany it) are definitely a hit in their minds.

That night I had prepared various cut-outs from the Primary 6 lesson book. Chapter 1 is about Heavenly Father’s Plan for Us. I had the boys explain to us what each part of the Plan of Salvation and had them help me place it on a piece of paper in the appropriate order. Unfortunately our poster was much too big to scan so I was thrilled when the boys brought home the below graphic from Primary yesterday. Our poster looked quite similar with the exception of less professional coloring and not nearly as fancy.




As we were completing the poster we had some great discussion about what each stage of life was like, what we did in each stage, and how wonderful it was for us to know what came next. Mr. Engineer was quite impressed that the whole plan made sense and kept telling us, "I already KNOW that!" We told them that in its most basic form this plan was the gospel.

Then we covered up most of the poster so it looked like the picture below....





...and asked them how they would feel if all they knew about was that they were born, would live on Earth and then Die. Everyone agreed that it would be very sad and scary too. The boys were quite concerned when we told them that there were many people on earth that only knew this part of the plan. They didn't know that they would be together with their families after they died and didn't even know where they would be after they died. That the missionaries job was so important that they went and found people that didn't know the whole plan and shared with them that we lived with Father in Heaven in the Premortal world before we were born and that if we lived righteously we could live with Him again and our families after we died.

I thought that our lesson was pretty much concluded when Engineer boy asked what would happen to people who didn't learn the gospel while they were on earth. Obviously we had glossed over the role of the Spirit World a little too much. So we explained about others being able to learn about the gospel while they were in the Spirit World and have members be baptized for them in the temple.

When we concluded both boys wanted to be Missionaries so that people wouldn't have to be sad or scared about what would happen to them after their life on Earth.


I know I haven't done the experience justice here, but it was truly a wonderful night with the Spirit present in our home.

6 comments:

DJ Thunder said...

Very excellent post, and it's great we were able to explain so much of the plan to our engineer and comedian :)

Catherine Cazier said...

Thank you for this post it was so great to read. I had an experice and few months ago with Jouette that was so filled with the spirit it was a moment I finnaly felt like I might be doing an okay job as a Mom. It is so great to hear others stories. We were singing When I am Baptized and the song ends, "and live with God again." After we finished this Jouette turned to me with tears in her eyes and said, "Mommy, I want to live with God again." It was just so sweet and touching. I really enjoy reading your blog. Thanks so much for sharing your feelings.
Oh, we fly to China on the 19th of July.

Stephen & Jill Williams said...

How fun! For the PQA, we're turning the church into the plan of salvation diagram! It will hopefully be a great experience the kids will talk about for a while! Sounds like your kids are prepared for it!

Jill said...

What a sweet, simple, and perfect way to explain the gospel, and missionary work. I doubt many parents take the time to tell it like you have. You told it in such a way to get it inside your sons' hearts...where it will stay with more teaching moments such as this through the years. So often we teach the mechanics of the gospel without it being heart felt. I can tell that your sons are really feeling for people who do not have the truth. They want to save them from being scared. Great post written by a great mother.

The Davies Family said...

That is amazing! He is so bright and in tune! I don't think I asked those questions until I was much older. Especially the one about what happens to those who die without hearing the gospel. What a great little missionary you've got there.
That sounds like an amazing FHE..one I think we need to do as well. You said you got the pictures/posters from the Primary Handbook? online?

C Dawn's bucket said...

The graphics we used for the poster we made during FHE were out of the Primary 6 Lesson Book on the Old Testament: Lesson One.

http://library.lds.org/nxt/gateway.dll/Curriculum/primary.htm/primary%206%20old%20testament.htm/1%20heavenly%20fathers%20plan%20for%20us.htm#JD_34603001

If you click on that part of my blog post it is also has a direct link there. I'm not sure where exactly the Primary Presidency found the graphics that they sent home with the kids (which I scanned and used on my blog).

It was a really great lesson and was nice to see what they knew and what questions they had. We just put it on some 12x12 scrapbook paper with replaceable double tape so that we could move the pieces around if the kids put them somewhere other than when they fit in the Plan.

HTH

Cynthia

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